May 212013
 

Roll of Honour — List of URLs for websites filtered/blocked by O2 and Symantec

Apr 172013
 

Barbara Kay speaks at her book signing event in Toronto on April 15, 2013. Her book, Acknowledgements, is a must read as she sheds light on many of the social matters that affect all of us especially men who she advocates for. You can get her book at Ben McNally Books, 366 Bay Street, Toronto. 416-361-0032 www.benmcnallybooks.com

Feb 262013
 

Is it just me? Or do I see so many women speaking out against feminism now days; it almost seems to be to the same degree as men?

I believe the tipping point has been reached ether way. While we still have ideology and the media clinging to the old ways, it’s just a matter of time before the truth permeates throughout society. . However, there is one thing that still bothers me. It’s the tolerance that the feminist movement should continue exist at all. Some people seem to believe it can be tailored, amended, adjusted, and adapted in some ways that will make it more palatable. That in doing so, it will continue to propagate but in a healthy and measured way. That it will abandon historical fundamental teachings, its negative social aspects, it’s linear hatred of all things men and boys and tendencies toward violence by governmental proxy.

To those of you that believe this is a reasoned approach toward feminism, by the MRM, and all concerned peoples, I’d like to ask you…

What part of racism or nazism we should keep? Or have we come to the greater conclusion that these are ideologies based on the fundamentals of hatred and should therefore be abolished completely?

Beware! The feminist movement will try to dilute these truths by deluding the public into believing in concepts like “radfems” and “NAFALT” but this is most certainly only a delusion. It’s a form of othering to deflect the truth.

Feminism is a doctrine of hatred and violence that needs to be destroyed in all its forms.

Feb 122013
 

FeministsMisandryMen… you know?… They’re a funny lot indeed!. It is the hallmark of Men to go to the moon, understand physics, and create a billion transistors that will fit on the head of a pin. Why? Because when there is a thought about something, that forms understandings, it will inevitably propose a dilemma about almost any given topic. Then, we want to fix it.

The truth is, Men, and boys, created this world and most all things in it with this fundamental inquisitiveness, about this world, as it is, and how can we make it somehow better.

I myself, have often pondered this conundrum about feminism, many times over again, and while there may not be one true answer that describes everything, sometimes, we are forced to subscribe to suitable workarounds to the problems.

It is for these innovations, I am so inspired by the intuitiveness, of all men and boys. .
So say it! Because, “I am a boy”

Feminist Quotes

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Feb 052013
 

little bitchHere are some quotes by renowned feminist and feminists organizations that describe the back-bone of feminist theory.

“The nuclear family must be destroyed… Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process.” — Linda Gordon

“I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honorable and viable political act, that the oppressed have a right to class-hatred against the class that is oppressing them.” — Robin Morgan, Ms. Magazine Editor.

“I haven’t the faintest notion what possible revolutionary role white hetero- sexual men could fulfill, since they are the very embodiment of reactionary- vested-interest-power. But then, I have great difficulty examining what men in general could possibly do about all this. In addition to doing the **bleep**work that women have been doing for generations, possibly not exist? No, I really don’t mean that. Yes, I really do.” — Robin Morgan

“We can’t destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage.” — Robin Morgan

“I claim that **bleep** exists any time sexual intercourse occurs when it has not been initiated by the woman, out of her own genuine affection and desire.”
– Robin Morgan

From her “The Demon Lover” (NY: Norton & Co., 1989 Morgan doesn’t hide her bigotry):

* p. 138-9: The phallic malady is epidemic and systemic… each individual male in the patriarchy is aware of his relative power in the scheme of things…. He knows that his actions are supported by the twin pillars of the State of man – the brotherhood ritual of political exigency and the brotherhood ritual of a sexual thrill in dominance. As a devotee of Thanatos, he is one with the practitioner of sado-masochistic “play” between “consenting adults,” as he is one with the rapist.
* p. 224: My white skin disgusts me. My passport disgusts me. They are the marks of an insufferable privilege bought at the price of others’ agony.
* p. 229: Sex to this point in my life has been trivial, at best a gesture of tenderness, at worst a chore. I couldn’t understand the furor about it.
* p. 316: Did she die of the disease called “family” or the disease called “rehabilitation”, of poverty or drugs or pornography, of economics or sexual slavery or a broken body?

“And let’s put one lie to rest for all time: the lie that men are oppressed, too, by sexism–the lie that there can be such a thing as ‘men’s liberation groups.’ Oppression is something that one group of people commits against another group, specifically because of a ‘threatening’ characteristic shared by the latter group–skin, color, sex or age, etc. The oppressors are indeed ****ED UP by being masters, but those masters are not OPPRESSED. Any master has the alternative of divesting himself of sexism or racism–the oppressed have no alternative–for they have no power but to fight. In the long run, Women’s Liberation will of course free men–but in the short run it’s going to cost men a lot of privilege, which no one gives up willingly or easily. Sexism is NOT the fault of women–kill your fathers, not your mothers”.
– Robin Morgan

“To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking dildo.”
– Valerie Solanas, Authoress of the SCUM Manifesto

“Life in this society being, at best, an utter bore and no aspect of society being at all relevant to women, there remains to civic-minded, responsible, thrill-seeking females only to overthrow the government, eliminate the money system, institute complete automation, and destroy the male sex.”
– Valerie Solana, SCUM founder (Society for Cutting Up Men.)

“The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness…can be trained to do most things.”
– Jilly Cooper, SCUM (Society For Cutting Up Men, started by Valerie Solanas)

“Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the women’s movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage.” — Sheila Cronin, the leader of the feminist organization NOW

“I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig.” — Andrea Dworkin

“Marriage as an institution developed from **bleep** as a practice.” — Andrea Dworkin

“Heterosexual intercourse is the pure, formalized expression of contempt for women’s bodies.” — Andrea Dworkin

“In my own life, I don’t have intercourse. That is my choice.” — Andrea Dworkin

Under patriarchy, every woman’s son is her potential betrayer and also the inevitable rapist or exploiter of another woman.” — Andrea Dworkin

“To be **bleep**able, a position that is social, not biological, defines what a woman is.” — Andrea Dworkin

“Q: People think you are very hostile to men.
A: I am.” — Andrea Dworkin

“Men use the night to erase us.” — Andrea Dworkin

“The annihilation of a woman’s personality, individuality, will, character, is prerequisite to male sexuality.” — Andrea Dworkin

“Men love death. In everything they make, they hollow out a central place for death, let its rancid smell contaminate every dimension of whatever still survives. Men especially love murder. In art they celebrate it, and in life they commit it. They embrace murder as if life without it would be devoid of passion, meaning, and action, as if murder were solace, stilling their sobs as they mourn the emptiness and alienation of their lives.”
– Andrea Dworkin

“Men are rapists, batterers, plunderers, killers; these same men are religious prophets, poets, heroes, figures of romance, adventure, accomplishment, figures ennobled by tragedy and defeat. Men have claimed the earth, called it ‘Her’. Men ruin Her. Men have airplanes, guns, bombs, poisonous gases, weapons so perverse and deadly that they defy any authentically human imagination.”
– Andrea Dworkin, Pornography: Men Possessing Women

“On the Left, on the Right, in the Middle; Authors, statesmen, thieves; so-called humanists and self-declared fascists; the adventurous and the contemplative, in every realm of male expression and action, violence is experienced and articulated as love and freedom.”
– Andrea Dworkin, Pornography: Men Possessing Women.

“The institution of sexual intercourse is anti-feminist” — Ti-Grace Atkinson

“Feminism is the theory, lesbianism is the practice.” — Ti-Grace Atkinson

“**bleep** is nothing more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear” — Susan Brownmiller; Authoress of Against Our Will p.6

“When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is only collaborating with the patriarchal system, eroticizing her own oppression.” — Sheila Jeffrys

“Politically, I call it **bleep** whenever a woman has sex and feels violated.” — Catherine MacKinnon

“All sex, even consensual sex between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman.” — Catherine MacKinnon

“You grow up with your father holding you down and covering your mouth so another man can make a horrible searing pain between your legs.”
– Catherine MacKinnon (Prominent legal feminist scholar; University of Michigan, & Yale.)

“In a patriarchal society, all heterosexual intercourse is **bleep** because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful consent.”
– Catharine MacKinnon, quoted in Professing Feminism: Cautionary Tales from the Strange World of Women’s Studies.

“The more famous and powerful I get the more power I have to hurt men.” — Sharon Stone; Actress

“Ninety-five percent of women’s experiences are about being a victim. Or about being an underdog, or having to survive… women didn’t go to Vietnam and blow things up. They are not Rambo.”
– Jodie Foster; Actress – as quoted in The New York Times Magazine.

“The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race.” — Sally Miller Gearhart, in The Future – If There Is One – Is Female.

“And if the professional rapist is to be separated from the average dominant heterosexual (male), it may be mainly a quantitative difference.”
– Susan Griffin, **bleep**: The All-American Crime.

“If life is to survive on this planet, there must be a decontamination of the Earth. I think this will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will result in a drastic reduction of the population of males.” –Mary Daly, former Professor at Boston College, 2001.

“If anyone is prosecuted for filing a false report, then victims of real attacks will be less likely to report them.” – David Angier

“Men who are unjustly accused of **bleep** can sometimes gain from the experience.” – Catherine Comins

“As long as some men use physical force to subjugate females, all men need not. The knowledge that some men do suffices to threaten all women. He can beat or kill the woman he claims to love; he can **bleep** women…he can sexually molest his daughters… THE VAST MAJORITY OF MEN IN THE WORLD DO ONE OR MORE OF THE ABOVE.”
– Marilyn French (her emphasis)

‎My feelings about men are the result of my experience. I have little sympathy for them. Like a Jew just released from Dachau, I watch the handsome young Nazi soldier fall writhing to the ground with a bullet in his stomach and I look briefly and walk on. I don’t even need to shrug. I simply don’t care. What he was, as a person, I mean, what his shames and yearnings were, simply don’t matter.”
– Marilyn French; The Woman’s Room.

“All patriarchists exalt the home and family as sacred, demanding it remain inviolate from prying eyes. Men want privacy for their violations of women… All women learn in childhood that women as a sex are men’s prey.”
– Marilyn French

“All men are rapists and that’s all they are”
– Marilyn French, Authoress; (later, advisoress to Al Gore’s Presidential Campaign.)

“The media treat male assaults on women like **bleep**, beating, and murder of wives and female lovers, or male incest with children, as individual aberrations…obscuring the fact that all male violence toward women is part of a concerted campaign.”
– Marilyn French

“I believe that women have a capacity for understanding and compassion which man structurally does not have, does not have it because he cannot have it. He’s just incapable of it.”
– Barbara Jordan; Former Congresswoman.

“Probably the only place where a man can feel really secure is in a maximum security prison, except for the imminent threat of release.”
– Germaine Greer.

“Man-hating is everywhere, but everywhere it is twisted and transformed, disguised, tranquilized, and qualified. It coexists, never peacefully, with the love, desire, respect, and need women also feel for men. Always man-hating is shadowed by its milder, more diplomatic and doubtful twin, ambivalence.”
– Judith Levine; Authoress

“Men’s sexuality is mean and violent, and men so powerful that they can ‘reach WITHIN women to ****/construct us from the inside out.’ Satan-like, men possess women, making their wicked fantasies and desires women’s own. A woman who has sex with a man, therefore, does so against her will, ‘even if she does not feel forced.’
– Judith Levine, (explicating comment profiling prevailing misandry.)

“I feel what they feel: man-hating, that volatile admixture of pity, contempt, disgust, envy, alienation, fear, and rage at men. It is hatred not only for the anonymous man who makes sucking noises on the street, not only for the rapist or the judge who acquits him, but for what the Greeks called philo-aphilos, ‘hate in love,’ for the men women share their lives with–husbands, lovers, friends, fathers, brothers, sons, coworkers.”
– Judith Levine, Authoress of My Enemy, My love

“There are no boundaries between affectionate sex and slavery in (the male) world. Distinctions between pleasure and danger are academic; the dirty-laundrylist of ‘sex acts’…includes **bleep**, foot binding, fellatio, intercourse, auto eroticism, incest, **bleep** intercourse, use and production of pornography, cunnilingus, sexual harassment, and murder.”
– Judith Levine; summarizing comment on the WAS document, (A southern Women’s Writing Collective: Women Against Sex.)

“All men are good for is ****ing, and running over with a truck”.
Statement made by A University of Maine Feminist Administrator, quoted by Richard Dinsmore, who brought a successful civil suit against the University in the amount of $600,000. Richard had protested the quote; was dismissed thereafter on the grounds of harassment; and responded by bringing suit against the University. 1995 settlement.

((Delaney Nickerson, of the American Coalition for ABUSE AWARENESS, refers to the False Memory Syndrome Foundation as “The ****ing Molesters Society”. (Miami Herald, April 3, 1995) The ACAA is a lobbying group, which includes Ellen Bass (co-author of THE COURAGE TO HEAL), and Rene Frederickson, leading feminist psychotherapist and strong proponent of repressed memory theory.))

((At the STONE ANGELS satanic ritual abuse conference in Thunder Bay in February, 1995, the following was contained in the handouts at a conference supported financially by the Ontario Government: FMS stands for: FULL OF MOSTLY **bleep**; FOR MORE SADISM; FELONS, MURDERERS, SCUMBALLS; FREQUENT MOLESTERS SOCIETY.))

“Women have their faults / men have only two: / everything they say / everything they do.”
– Popular Feminist Graffiti

“I was, in reality, bred by my parents as my father’s concubine… What we take for granted as the stability of family life may well depend on the sexual slavery of our children. What’s more, this is a cynical arrangement our institutions have colluded to conceal.”.
– Sylvia Fraser; Journalist

“We are taught, encouraged, moulded by and lulled into accepting a range of false notions about the family. As a source of some of our most profound experiences, it continues to be such an integral part of our emotional lives that it appears beyond criticism. Yet hiding from the truth of family life leaves women and children vulnerable.”
– Canadian Panel on Violence Against Women.

Catharine MacKinnon ( ) maintains that “the private is a sphere of battery, marital **bleep** and women’s exploited labor.” In this way, privacy and family are reduced to nothing more than aspects of the master plan, which is male domination. Democratic freedoms and the need to keep the state’s nose out of our personal affairs are rendered meaningless. The real reason our society cherishes privacy is because men have invented it as an excuse to conceal their criminality. If people still insist that the traditional family is about love and mutual aid–ideals which, admittedly, are sometimes betrayed–they’re “hiding from the truth.” The family isn’t a place where battery and marital **bleep** sometimes happen but where little else apparently does. Sick men don’t simply molest their daughters, they operate in league with their wives to “breed” them for that purpose.
– Donna Laframboise; The Princess at the Window; (in a critical explication of the Catharine MacKinnon, Gloria Steinhem et al tenets of misandric belief.)

“If the classroom situation is very heteropatriarchal–a large beginning class of 50 to 60 students, say, with few feminist students–I am likely to define my task as largely one of recruitment…of persuading students that women are oppressed”
– Professor Joyce Trebilcot of Washington University, as quoted in Who Stole Feminism: How Women Have Betrayed Women.

“Men, as a group, tend to be abusive, either verbally, sexually or emotionally. There are always the exceptions, but they are few and far between (I am married to one of them). There are different levels of violence and abuse and individual men buy into this system by varying degrees. But the male power structure always remains intact.”
Message on FEMISA, responding to a request for arguments that men are unnecessary for a child to grow into mature adulthood.

Another posting on FEMISA: “Considering the nature and pervasiveness of men’s violence, I would say that without question, children are better off being raised without the presence of men. Assaults on women and children are mostly perpetrated by men whom they are supposed to love and trust: fathers, brothers, uncles, grandfathers, step-fathers.”
Both quotes taken from Daphne Patai’s excellent critical work, Heterophobia

“At Brandies I discovered Feminism. And I instantly became a convert… writing brilliant papers in my Myths of Patriarchy class, in which I likened my fate as a woman to other victims throughout the ages.”
– Heather Hart 7

Here are 10 reasons why we are concerned about feminism and the National Organization for Women.

1. “The simple fact is that every woman must be willing to be identified as a lesbian to be fully feminist” (National NOW Times, January, 1988).

2. “Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the women’s movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage” (feminist leader Sheila Cronan).

3. In response to a question concerning China’s policy of compulsory abortion after the first child, Molly Yard responded, “I consider the Chinese government’s policy among the most intelligent in the world” (Gary Bauer, “Abetting Coercion in China,” The Washington Times, Oct. 10, 1989).

4. “Overthrowing capitalism is too small for us. We must overthrow the whole…patriarch!” (Gloria Steinem, radical feminist leader, editor of MS magazine).

5. “Marriage has existed for the benefit of men; and has been a legally sanctioned method of control over women…. We must work to destroy it. The end of the institution of marriage is a necessary condition for the liberation of women. Therefore it is important for us to encourage women to leave their husbands and not to live individually with men…. All of history must be re-written in terms of oppression of women. We must go back to ancient female religions like witchcraft” (from “The Declaration of Feminism,” November, 1971).

6. “By the year 2000 we will, I hope, raise our children to believe in human potential, not God.” (Gloria Steinem, editor of MS magazine).

7. “Let’s forget about the mythical Jesus and look for encouragement, solace, and inspiration from real women…. Two thousand years of patriarchal rule under the shadow of the cross ought to be enough to turn women toward the feminist ‘salvation’ of this world.” (Annie Laurie Gaylor, “Feminist Salvation,” The Humanist, p. 37, July/August 1988.

8. “In order to raise children with equality, we must take them away from families and communally raise them” (Dr. Mary Jo Bane, feminist and assistant professor of education at Wellesley College, and associate director of the school’s Center for Research on Woman).

9. “Being a housewife is an illegitimate profession… The choice to serve and be protected and plan towards being a family- maker is a choice that shouldn’t be. The heart of radical feminism is to change that.” (Vivian Gornick, feminist author, University of Illinois, The Daily Illini, April 25, 1981.

10. “The most merciful thing a large family can to do one of its infant members is to kill it.” (Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood, in “Women and the New Race,” p. 67).

“We are, as a sex, infinitely superior to men.” — Elizabeth Cady Stanton

From ‘A feminist Dictionary; ed. Kramarae and Triechler, Pandora Press, 1985:

MALE:…represents a variant of or deviation from the category of female. The first males were mutants…the male sex represents a degeneration and deformity of the female.

MAN:…an obsolete life form… an ordinary creature who needs to be watched…a contradictory baby-man…

TESTOSTERONE POISONING: … ‘Until now it has been though that the level of testosterone in men is normal simply because they have it. But if you consider how abnormal their behavior is, then you are led to the hypothesis that almost all men are suffering from “testosterone poisoning.”

Letter to editor: “Women’s Turn to Dominate”. “……Clearly you are not yet a free-thinking feminist but rather one of those women who bounce off the male-dominated, male-controlled social structures. Who cares how men feel or what they do or whether they suffer? They have had over 2000 years to dominate and made a complete hash of it. Now it is our turn. My only comment to men is: if you don’t like it, bad luck–and if you get in my way I’ll run you down.”
Signed: Liberated Women, Boronia Herald-Sun, Melbourne, Australia. 9 Feb., 1996.

Dec 122012
 

Warren Farrell protest at the University of Toronto – Full version
One thing has always struck me as odd, but never so much as it does today. In this country of Canada, where we are prized as one of the most progressive nations around the world, is how our governments continue a seemingly inhabiting assault on Men and boys while standing on a fictional pillar of moral integrity and a disillusion of righteousness. I often wonder what it will take before leaders who continue to siphon billions into this radical hate movement via government funded schools come to grips with the realities. .

Can anyone today even imagine government funded programs in schools that would teach its students that blacks are all rape supporters, pedophiles, prone to violence, unlawfulness and therefore are worthy of censure, vitriol and should be continually and aggressively stripped of their human rights?? At more than one point in our history, this was all too true, but it would seem we are to learn these lessons yet again. .

Colleges and universities are suppose to be places of higher learning and represent the future of civility and governments are suppose to govern that jurisprudence, the fundamental concepts of moral integrity and the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms are strictly upheld.

Most certainly and unquestionably this is not the case. While millions of our dollars are going to feed these women studies programs that clearly teach hatred of men and boys while the purposeful suppression of Men’s centers can only mean one thing. Discrimination!

The government of Canada not only indorses and funds the ideological hatred of men and boys but is fundamentally corrupt and neglectful of its duties and responsibilities to uphold its charters. What will it take? At some point push will most certainly become shove, and when it does, what will be the excuses of those who are responsible for instigating this civil unrest?

It’s high time we started calling out the institutions and organizations that support these hateful ideologues. The University of Toronto is a misandrist, bigoted institution doing nothing to protect male students from these ideologues (and I would encourage young men everywhere to avoid attending this school). Shine a light on CUPE (Canadian Public Employees Union) and their unwavering support of such hatred and censorship (they sponsored the protest, after all), and DEMAND ACCOUNTABILITY of every last one of them.

Interview on Sun news network about the incidence at the conference.

http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/video/search/all/source/the-arena/mens-rights-speech-stifled-only-on-a-canadian-campus/2017271843001

http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/sunnews/straighttalk/archives/2012/12/20121208-075648.html

Nov 302012
 

 I wanted to alert everybody that I will be appearing today on this segment on female sex predators on Huffington Post Live at 5pm Eastern on Mike Sacks’ show. Feel free to tune in. If you miss it live I am given to understand that the link will still work to see the recorded session afterward.

Some links people may find useful:

Cenk Uygur & The Young Turks pat a victim on the back, says the victim was asking for it. The case of Amie Lou Neely.

A victim who wasn’t believed, a common trait, since most victims of female sex predators are not believed, even though female sexual predators are acknowledged to be at least 25% of the sex predator population and due to under-reporting 25% is almost certainly a low figure.

How sexual predation is considered a bonus when a boy is the victim of a woman.

Also see how female predators groom their victims.

A survey of multiple studies on the growth of female pedophaelia (note: much reason to believe that this “growth” isn’t growth at all, just somebody finally deciding to start taking it seriously and really looking for it.)

A site that seeks to increase awareness of female sex predators.

The cultural siege on men which says that sexual predation is a predominantly male trait is continually eroding. And that’s with good reason: because it’s sexist rubbish.

*Update 2*: How could I forget to mention the men paying child support to their rapists?

Nov 302012
 

Not just no, but Hell No!
Nothing is ever going to change for Men or within our society or within the confines of intimate partner relationships unless or until men stand on their own and demand whatever it is they deem worthy for themselves regardless of what others want. It’s a shit game that women use to control Men into thinking that not following their demands is somehow disrespecting them or that it is betrayal of that relationships fundamentals. Of course, if they do succeed in this manipulation, it’s no wonder why they soon become tired and board of their partners weakness. Women, whether they admit it or not, say so or not, want a man strong enough, at the very least, to be a man onto himself.

This next video shows you exactly how your wife or girlfriend will react when you buy yourself a new car. But you as a true petrolhead will be offered a clear look into what could happen if you buy a brilliant new sports car.

Nov 272012
 

Ah the age old debate, and by debate I mean if you forget to put the seat down, you will have your head bitten off.

Speaking as one of those young men, whom was raised in a second wave feminism, single parent, radical feminist household; I can attest that I was trained (and I mean literally), nay I had it drilled into me right from potty training age that:

“Boys MUST always put the toilet seat down, so girls & women don’t fall in”.

The main reasoning behind this, is that age old “Rah, Rah I want privilege, and independence, but I still want to claim victimhood under the guise of equality” issue. While the matter of the toilet seat seems like a trivial issue look at that statement again

“BOYS MUST ALWAYS PUT THE TOILET SEAT DOWN”.

 

the context of the toilet itself isn’t what’s so important. No, it’s teaching boys right from the age of a toddler that they must ALWAYS be mindful of girls & women, and behave in a way that will not upset them. hmm funny yet they get to make boys & men upset all the time, and we’re not supposed to react because they are at once “Strong, Independent” females whom are also “delicate flowers” whom must be protected.

I also was taught that even if I was half-asleep; I must lift the seat which, I’ll admit is more a matter of cleanliness, but I digress the point is we are ALSO expected to put the seat back down; while we are in that half-life state. Lest we want to incur the wrath of woman.

(Mind you I have to tell you, unlike most children I grasped the aiming concept well before I was potty-trained).

Explain to me how that promotes an idea of equality in children? If you truly believed in equality you should then also be teaching girls (and apparently grown women), that when they are in that half-sleep state; if boys (and men) can lift the seat up and down while half-concious, then so too should  girls (and women) be just as capable to put the seat down in the middle of the night.

Also women, when you are at a guys home, YES HIS HOME, you should probably realize that if he is single and you’re dating him. Having him put the seat down, should not be expected. Most men now and days put it down when a woman is over anyways, but you should never expect it of him.

I know it seems like a small matter, but even a trivial matter is surprisingly poignant to the equality issue.

After all we all have to use the bathroom.

Nov 212012
 

The Canadian Association for Equality invites you to support the men’s centre campaign. In support of the Simon Fraser University Men’s Centre recently approved at that Vancouver campus, help us build men’s centres at every university. We want to provide a welcoming and open space for young people – men and women – facing the serious – and all too common – issues we describe in this video. A place where they can get information and support, connect with others, and stand up together to make a change.

The first step is to start a men’s issues awareness society at your campus. So contact us today at info@equalitycanada.com.

Spread the word by sharing this video and subscribing to our Channel, joining us on Facebook or following us on twitter @equalitycanada.
Tweet about the project using #menscentre

Full Transcript

Segment 1

Men’s Health

I came to the University Men’s Centre to play Xbox and enjoy the pizza and beer, as I heard from some YouTube videos were the main activities I would enjoy there.  But then when my dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer I found some important information at the Men’s Centre.

Gay Bullying

My brother was gay. I remember thinking when he came out to the family he was the most courageous person in the world. The other kids didn’t think so and they tormented him mercilessly. He tried to take his own life when he was 17.

Boys and Education

I didn’t do very well in high school and dropped out early. I took a few part time jobs here and there, but when the economic situation went downhill I lost even those opportunities. I’ve been unemployed now for 3 years.

Fathers

My parents divorced when I was 6. The courts awarded sole custody to my mother. I told them it wasn’t what I wanted, but they told me it was in my best interest. I thought having a dad in my life was in my best interest.

Workforce

My father was badly injured in the saw mill explosion in Burns Lake, BC this January. I heard him tell stories of his friends jumping from the second floor to escape the fire and smoke. Just horrible stuff.

Segment 2

Men’s Health

At the University Men’s Centre I learned that prostate cancer is just as deadly as breast cancer (1) yet receives only a fraction of the funding and that the myth that prostate cancer only affects old men just isn’t true. It’s weird, but new studies show that younger men with certain aggressive forms of the disease are actually more prone to dying quicker (2).

Gay Bullying

At the Men’s Centre I learned that men kill themselves three times more often than women.  (3) I also learned that bullying – especially physical bullying – is a much worse problem for boys than girls (4) and boys are over twice as likely to be bullied for being gay, yet less likely to report it or receive any kind of help or support. (5)

Boys and Education

At the Men’s Centre I learned that boys lag behind in secondary school performance and graduation rates significantly. (6) As my friends in university tell me, fewer and fewer men are applying to university. (7)

Fathers

Fatherlessness was rampant in my community, as were drugs and violence. At the Men’s Centre I learned about the consequences of fatherlessness. Children who grow up fatherless are more prone to drug and substance addiction, criminal behaviour, suicide, teen pregnancy, and to wind up in prison. (8), (9) And I can tell you, fatherlessness is certainly not in a child’s best interest.

Workforce

Industries like construction, transportation, fishing, mining, and forestry have two things in common: They are the most dangerous industries in the country, and the jobs are occupied almost entirely by men. (13) We hear a lot about gender in the workplace, but these industries and this issue are all-too-often ignored. At the Men’s Centre I learned that men account for over 60% of workplace injuries (14) and almost all workplace deaths. While the rate of workplace death is thankfully falling for women, it continues to rise for men. (15)

Segment 3

Men’s Health

There’s just so much we don’t understood about prostate cancer. That’s why at the Men’s Centre we support Movember and other initiatives to fundraise and spread awareness about prostate cancer. I’ve also learned about PSA screening tests and encouraged my family members to start taking them.

Gay Bullying

At the Men’s Centre I found social support groups for guys like my brother. I learned how to encourage men to ask for help, and the places I could send them to find it.

Boys and Education

The teachers, most of them women, seemed to pay more attention to the girls in the class and my parents never pushed me as hard as my sister. (10) So at the Men’s Centre I’m working to tutor and mentor young boys in at risk neighborhoods, so that they have as many educational opportunities as possible.

Fathers

The Men’s Centre helped me get over the alienation I had experienced after years when my mother prevented my dad from visiting me and it helped me understand the magnitude of this problem in society. (11) Now I’ve joined a political initiative to make equal shared parenting the presumption when courts award custody.

Wokforce

At the Men’s Centre I learned about occupational safety and about my right to refuse dangerous work. (12) Now, I help host educational events to spread awareness about these rights to other students, especially those working in high-risk jobs.

Segment 4

Men’s Health

I support the Men’s Centre because men’s health is literally a matter of life and death.

Gay Bullying

I support the Men’s Centre because I love my brother.

Boys and Education

I support the Men’s Centre because every case of inequality is important to me.

Fathers

I support the Men’s Centre because I love my dad.

Workforce

I support the Men’s Centre because it might save my life – or maybe even yours.

Call to Action

The Canadian Association for Equality invites you to support the men’s centre campaign. Help us build men’s centres at every university. We want to provide a welcoming and open space for young people – men and women – facing the serious – and all too common – issues we’ve described. A place where they can get information and support. Connect with others. And stand up together to make a change.

SOURCES
(1)
Surveillance Epidemiology and End Results, U.S. National Institutes of Health, http://www.seer.cancer.gov/statfacts/html/pros.html
Surveillance Epidemiology and End Results, U.S. National Institutes of Health, http://www.seer.cancer.gov/statfacts/html/breast.html

(2) Cancer survival statistics by age, Cancer Research UK, www.cancerresearchuk.org/cancer-info/cancerstats/survival/age/cancer-survival-statistics-by-age

(3) At all points in time over the past 60 years, males have had higher rates of suicide than females.

Suicide rates: An overview, Health Canada Statistics Division, July 2012, http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/82-624-x/2012001/article/11696-eng.htm

(4) Overall, boys (26%) were more likely to report being victimized by physical bullying compared to girls (16%)
CPHA Safe School Study, Totten, Quigley and Morgan, 2004
www.cpha.ca/uploads/progs/_/safeschools/safe_school_study_e.pdf

(5) ibid.
Proportionally, boys were over twice as likely as girls to suffer this form of harassment…Whereas 14% of boys were affected, 6% of girls were victimized in this way.

(6) Among the 57 countries of the OECD – Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development – 29% more women graduate and go on to university than men.
OECD, Education at a glance, 2010, Table A2.1 (Paris: 2010)

Access Document Exploring the Boys Crises in Education

(7) In Canada in 2005, men made up less than 42% of post-secondary students.  Source: OECD, higher education to 2030, “Volume I: Demography”, 2008, p. 266.

(8) Father-deprivation is a more reliable predictor of criminal activity than race, environment or poverty. Father deprived children are:
- 72% of all teenage murderers,
- 60% of rapists
- 70% of incarcerated kids
- 90% of runaways
National Fatherhood Initiative (U.S.A.), US Bureau of Census (U.S.A.), FBI (U.S.A.)

(9) Children who grew up fatherless are
- twice as likely to quit school
- five times more likely to commit suicide
- 8 times more likely to go to prison
- 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances
The Institute for the Study of Civil Society ( Civitas ) U.K. Stunning statistics on the problems of fatherless homes Experiments in Living: The Fatherless Family
Referenced by Canadian Children’s Rights Council – Conseil canadien des droits des enfants: Fatherlessness in Canada http://www.canadiancrc.com/Fatherlessness/Fatherlessness_in_Canada.aspx

(10) Dr. Cappon suggests we “need to change culture and social norms affecting the development of boys’ values and self images”. The big problem is the gap in literacy, reading and writing. reading and education are viewed as girl activities.
Exploring the “Boy Crisis” in Education, Dr. Paul Cappon, Canadian Council on Learning, Bosch Foundation, Berlin, January 27-29, 2011
Access Document Exploring the Boys Crises in Education

(11) As of 2006 there were 1,132,290 single mother families, 20.7% of all families are single mother families, and number is increasing
Statistics Canada, 2006 Census
http://www.statcan.gc.ca/tables-tableaux/sum-som/l01/cst01/famil50a-eng.htm

77.7% of sole custody orders were granted to the mother, 5.2% to the father.
source: National Longitudinal Survey of Children and Youth (NLSCY)

mothers have physical custody 88.0% of the time, whereas fathers have physical custody 6.4% of the time.
Source: Canada: Department of Justice. Sharing Custody – When Parents Separate: Further Findings from the Natioanl Longitudinal Survey of Children and Youth (2004-FCY-6E). Updated: Dec 5, 2011.
http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fcy-fea/lib-bib/rep-rap/2005/2004_6/p3.html

(12) Source: Compensation Boards of Canada (AWCBC)

(13) Human Resources and Skills Development Canada http://www4.hrsdc.gc.ca/.3ndic.1t.4r@-eng.jsp?iid=20

(14) 30 times more men than women die on the job, or 97% of workplace fatalities are men.
Centre for the study of living standards  Referenced here: http://www.kanetix.ca/ic_life_info_life_articles

(15) http://www.hrsdc.gc.ca/eng/labour/publications/health_safety/refuse/page00.shtml
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Nov 212012
 

Despite about 100 protestors blocking the entrance to my presentation on Boys to Men at the University of Toronto this past Friday, Nov. 16, I was ultimately able to speak. (You can see footage of the protest here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=TLyRvmrdsJI)

This video is a post-presentation interview with me (Warren Farrell) and one of the event organizers representing the Canadian Association for Equality (CAFÉ). I address the following:

Why the physically and verbally violent protestors who tore down and defaced hundreds of posters? In part, because my Boys to Men presentation was sponsored by CAFÉ. CAFÉ is a non-profit, self-funded group affiliated with the U of Toronto. It’s only a year old. Some feminist-oriented groups, and especially the Socialist Workers Party, objected to their efforts to bring to the U of Toronto an understanding of the boy crisis and the importance of incorporating boys and men’s issues into the discussion of gender issues.

From their perspective, boys and men’s issues equal men’s rights; men are the oppressors and the rapists; and a university shouldn’t be allowing “hate speech.” From my perspective, boys and men are in the same family boat as women and girls, and boys are experiencing a boy crisis throughout the industrialized world that is hurting boys, families, the economy and those of our daughters who wish to parent their children with motivated and loving men.

Of course, the media is covering the heat, but if you’re interested in: the causes of the boy crisis; solutions; and how you can more effectively help boys avoid the “failure to launch,” go to whitehouseboysmen (www.whitehouseboysmen.org), CAFÉ (www.equalitycanada.com), and The Myth of Male Power (www.warrenfarrell.org). My homepage is www.warrenfarrell.com .

Nov 202012
 

Posted by Misandry123
FeministsMisandryAs a typical apologetic Canadian I must apologize deeply for the appalling behavior of my fellow Canadians last weekend in Toronto. The terrorist behavior proved to the world that Canada is plagued by violent intolerant bigoted criminals like Hitler’s brown shirts..

Please forgive me for the length of this note as I attempt to wrap my head around this complex and draconian issue. Misandry is fairly new to me. Upon discovering this issue my conscious and lack of knowledge compelled me to research misandry further. What I have found is that misandry forms the central pillar of Canadian social control programs (SCPs). I compared SCPs from other countries to ours. The strongest comparison was Hitler’s SCP of anti-Semitism as is described in his book Mein Kampf, My Struggle, in which he dehumanizes the targets of his SCP.

The inflammatory labels Hitler brands the future human sacrifices of his SCP, Jews in this case, are virtually identical to the language use by misandrists in Canada. Use of such language is deemed as hate crimes in Canada. That is unless it is used against men like it was used against Jews in Germany in a strategy to demonize, dehumanize and persecute like animals. Based on historical comparisons, such as with the Soviet Union’s Gulags and Canadian aboriginal residential school SCPs, it seems that the fate of current Canadian SCP victims is likely to get a lot worse before it gets better.

Misandrists in Canada take pride in being labeled as Nazis as this acknowledges their status of absolute power in Canadian society along with commensurate state funding and privileges. A litany of wrongfully accused cases involving men, like David Milgaard, and virtually none involving women, plagues our entirely corrupt Kleptocratic Canadian criminal justice system. The hate propaganda spewed by misandrists in Canada mirrors Hitler’s view that “I see no reason why man should not be as cruel to man as nature is”.

Nothing in Canada describes the criminal justice system as clearly as this quotation. Men are routinely wrongfully accused and the innocents are knowingly subjected to human atrocities in our criminal justice system. These usually mild mannered meek innocents are routinely beaten, raped, etc. at the behest of the system. Studies have proven that sex accusations against men are false anywhere from 25% to 75% of the time. An exploding industry is the growth of the wrongly accused business. Lawyers and groups address the justice system’s widespread atrocities that are blatant, extreme, and fraudulent and fabrications of fictional crimes. These state based frauds are created to feed a steady supply of innocent victims into the system in order to steal increasingly large amounts of government cash to benefit the criminal justice system cronies. This occurs at a time when statistics prove that crime is declining significantly.

Misandry corruption has led to the establishment of a well-entrenched Canadian kleptocracy for feminist special interest groups and other misandrists funded and/or enabled by the state such as the criminal justice system. Kleptocracy, “rule by thieves”, is a form of political and government corruption where the government exists to increase the personal wealth and political power of its officials and the ruling class at the expense of the wider population, often without pretense of honest service.

Those who attacked Warren’s presentation in Toronto last weekend were state sponsored terrorists for whom truth is completely irrelevant. Promulgating male truths by Warren, no matter how unassociated with misandry and feminism, may eventually compromise the misandrist’s Kleptocratic status and benefits. Many sex charges related cases are fabricated and kleptocratic as Milgaard found where crown witnesses were paid to lie. I would be surprised to hear anything other than that the authorities such as the university, government special interest funding departments, criminal justice system, etc., all condoned and enabled the behavior to date by ensuring that their terrorist acts go consequence free. So far my suspicions have been confirmed.

My grandparents left Europe after WW1 because they believed that those in charge would make war all over again in their lifetime. Sadly, they were correct. By those in charge they meant the wealthy and powerful that created Hitler. Gramps meant the supporters and creators of Hitler such as the Henry Fords, DuPont’s, Krupp’s, JP Getty’s, IBMs, King of England, etc., to whom Hitler gave the highest possible state recognition for creating and supporting him and Nazism. My gramps believed that war was highly profitable for such people who were personally responsible for the war crimes. The same applies in our current Canadian society with regards to the obvious links between misandry SCPs and Kleptocracy.

In terms of explaining why our Canadian society has embraced misandry en masse, I found understanding from the book: On fighting, killing, and dying : the secret World War II transcripts of German POWs by author Neitzel, Sönke. This explains how Germany’s normal families, friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. became blood thirsty zombie butchers as a result of Hitler’s SCPs. Canada has adopted the same SCPs standard with misandry replacing anti-Semitism and anti-anyone not Aryan. At this point I have read a summary of this book and hope to read it all when it becomes available from the local library.

The psychotic violent mob at Warren’s presentation is the same ilk as the German brown shirt gangs attacking Jews and anyone else that may be any threat, or just propose a different view, to Hitler’s sadistic values which have the same dehumanizing aspects of our kleptocracy’s misandry values.
“Those who don’t know history are destined to repeat it.”Edmund Burke
“The spectacle (McCarthyism) is one we would expect in a totalitarian nation where the rights of the individual are crushed beneath the juggernaut of statism and oppression; it has no place in America where government exists to serve people, not to destroy them” President Harry S. Truman.

Oct 302012
 

This is in response to a post on Tumblr, the post that irked my response was this:

Feminism =/= Better than men

or

Feminism =/= HATE men

FEMINISM=EQUAL RIGHTS

Why is that so hard to understand??

and here was my response:

Because no one wants to look at the fact, that “Feminists” want rights, but zero accountability or agency.

Whereas Women’s Rights and Men’s Rights Activists seek equal rights, with accountability AND agency. If you look closely at feminism you will see like any IDEOLOGY; it has been corrupted and perverted in some way.

While *they claim to fight for equal rights, most of their ideals are terrifyingly similar to Patriarchy.

**Feminism is also not about equal rights, if they openly (and proudly) promote bigotry. How then could such an ideology promote equal human rights?

*It should be noted when I am referencing “they” I’m not generalizing the entire group; I’m merely speaking of the radical extremists. The “Femistasi” or “Feminazi” is what I refer to; and what I’m not referring to are necessarily women. Nay the majority of these aggressors are in fact MALE inacting MALE on MALE shaming, and in some cases threatening violence. I have witnessed this first-hand in Vancouver. If feminism was in fact an ideology in promotion of equal rights, instead of attacking Men’s Rights activists, they would instead have a dialogue. In fact people whom identify as “Feminists”, but damn and rail against said radicals, and do in fact want all aspects of human rights looked at; I respectfully prefer to deem them Women’s Rights Activists.

Now the funny thing is it’s mostly women I hear damning feminism, seeing it as something that has become vile; Many have even said “It’s about damn time” in response to Men’s Rights Activists who were PEACEFULLY excercising their right to freedom of speech & expression on an issue they felt needed awareness. These issues include, but are not limited to:

Reproductive Rights, Male Disposability, Parental Alienation, False Rape Allegations, False Domestic Abuse Allegations, coercion of violence (better known as violence by proxy), lack of Safe Male Spaces (such as Abuse shelters, Rape counselling centers *gasp* yes Men can get raped, by other men or Women!), Shaming of the Male gender, the list goes on.

If any of this sounds like familiar “Complaining”, well that’s EXACTLY WHAT THEY SAID TO WOMEN FIGHTING FOR RIGHTS AS FAR BACK AS THE FIRST WOMAN TO SPEAK HER MIND! What did people do in those days, they degraded, attacked, insulted, shamed, and coerced women whom spoke up.

The issue is NEARLY identical, all that’s happened is a role reversal, which is not progress. It has caused damage at a societal, philosophical, and human level.

That’s just it. WE’RE ALL FUCKING HUMANS!

Many women stand by men’s rights activists, whilst still standing up for women’s rights. We call them Women’s rights Activists, because that’s what they ARE! they want to focus on women’s rights, but they also want to support awareness of men’s issues, of LGBTQ issues, of ANY human rights issues. conversely they want Men’s Rights Activists to focus on their issues, whilst looking at ALL human right’s issues as well.

This is where we need to make a distinction, and it is one of the simplest ones out there.

A Feminist is not a Women’s Rights Activist or an Equal Rights Activist. A Feminist seeks an unbalanced society. A Matriarchal society, and I think over the last 50 or so years those women have proven, they can be just as dangerous, as the “privileged males” they rail against.

**Feminism promotes bigotry?! How is that you say, simple read theAgent Orange Files and you will see the openly misandric message, hell even just look around tumblr!

But it doesn’t stop there, most dyed-in-the-wool feminists are not just crazy radicals that no one listens to. They are Doctors, Politicians, University Professors, Lawyers, CEOs, CFOs, Police Officers, people of influence (regardless of whether they are male or female). 

But how else are they bigoted you ask?

Well look at how poorly you are treated if you are not a straight female feminist.

If you’re a male feminist; they pat you on the head and say good boy, as they give you a poisoned treat otherwise (and vulgarly) known as “Pussy on the Pedestal”.

if you’re a feminist and a person of colour, they treat you like shit, some will even be openly racist to you, and I see PoC “Feminists” bemoan this all the time in public and on the internet.

If you’re Lesbian they tolerate you because “Sisters doing it for themselves” is good P.R.

If you’re Gay you are treated like a domesticated animal, like a good girly-boy…

SPEAKING OF! They treat transgenders whom are trasitioning, or have fully transitioned like the scum sucking bottom feeders of the earth, which makes absolutely no sense; because as we all know regardless of which way a transgender is transitioning, they are the gender they are becoming. So why give gay MEN preferential treatment over WOMEN trapped in male bodies, whom are taking steps to become WOMEN in body, as much as they are in mind?

Last but not least let’s look at what they’ve done to the generations of men, whom have done no ill towards them. The generations of boys raised, to be good & proper & respectful & obedient to the all powerful FEMINIST (notice how I said Feminist and not Woman there?). We automatically defend them by proxy, even if they were an agressor, we give feminists all the power in family court, we give feminists a slap on the wrist at murder trials, when a feminist cheats we say “Oh she wasn’t being satisfied” or “Her man must have been abusive & cheating on her”. We ignore the emotional trauma a couple faces in terms of dealing with abortion, instead in our feminist culture we focus on the woman. Not the woman and her significant other.

So I’m sorry, but I have a hard time believing a group that promotes bigotry and inequality, is in fact fighting for equality.

It’s these along with a myriad of other issues I see every day, that make me want to fight for Men’s rights. However because I believe in HUMAN RIGHTS, I will also fight for Women’s rights, LGBTQ Rights, Dignified Death Rights, Reproductive Rights, Family Rights, etc.

To the 2nd, 3rd, and even 4th wave Feminists, I have a simple request. Look around at how your so-called equal human rights group treats any human? Take a long hard look, and tell me if you can keep sipping that kool-aid? If you can still stomach it, great this was lost on you, and this response was not going to change your mind anyhow. However if you find the opposite, if you look into the wrongs Feminism has… indulged in, then I welcome you with open arms to the realm of TRUE HUMAN RIGHTS. I will happily identify you with women’s rights activism AS WELL AS human rights activism.

Women’s Rights Are Human Rights, Men’s Rights Are Human Rights, LGBTQ Rights Are Human Rights, Dignified Death Rights Are Human Rights, Reproductive Rights Are Human Rights, Family Rights Are Human Rights.